Continuing on in the vein of my last post, I ended up writing a long and melodramatic tome on the providence of God. Watching the patterns emerge was hard; in some ways writing about it was almost as difficult. But also instructive in the way I've learned only hard lessons can be.
Anyone
who has read a lot of Dickens knows he had an affinity for connecting
everyone and everything in a nice loop at the end of his books. There
were no coincidences and if you wondered what the hell was the point of
discussing Jerry Cruncher’s grave robbing excursions, you just had to
wait til the end of the story and you’d find out. Sometimes you have to
wonder if God isn’t writing a Dickens novel and telling you the end
would spoil it.
As my motto says, God often works by contraries. Perhaps that's why
James tells us to append "if the Lord wills" to any statement. We really
don’t know what his secret plans are. And, as I've said, of all things we can be
thankful to God for I think that’s one of the most valuable. We have no
idea what he has in mind, only that it’s ultimately for some good. We
pray earnestly to be conformed to the likeness of his son, to be used in
some way, with no idea how he is going to answer those prayers. When he
does, it’s usually in very surprising and sometimes unwanted ways. In
my experience the times I see a definite answer have mostly been bone
crushingly painful and I think “if I’d known this is what he was going
to do I would have taken it all back”.
As
I have often said, we go along brokering little deals with God,
ignorant to the fact that he isn’t in the contract business and his
silence isn’t acquiescence. Until we get to the point where he’s
supposed to keep his end of the bargain, and he reneges. As we ride
along one way, thinking "the Lord's SO in this" He turns. Hard. It's
like how when you learn to ride a bike and take a turn too fast
resulting in the bike going one way and you another. It ends with a
thudding stop at the ground, a face full of dirt and many tears. The
value is in what you learn from it.
It’s
been a decade of learning from the fall. I think about the person I was
then, and I know that without the falling down, I could never become
the person I am. I know that God has been working providentially in all
things to answer my immature prayers; they are too coincidental in the
Dickensian sense to be anything else. And too painful and hard. It’s
kind of amazing how he pushed and pulled me through it all to make the
new me. I would have never been able to do what I am doing
now at 24. Would never have been able to be the person I am now. And
part of me still laments that it took everything that it did to make me
grow up. I know that it’s not all about me, but in the end these little things are how he
brings us closer to him. And I want to thank him for all the hell he
brought into my life that I could be outfitted for heaven. Working in
contraries again.
**Then I wrote a bunch of what turns out to be insignificant details to advance the thesis. Let it be known that it was advanced. "Testimonies" often become hopelessly narcissistic and the forest becomes lost for the trees. But I have to give credit where credit is due, and as James said,
know it was the Lord’s will that I would do this or that thing. He had
and has bigger plans than me making it through the last ten years.
Obviously I am to work for the good of my neighbours in my vocation, and
in so doing become a mask of God and a means by which he acts
providentially in their
lives. He will make the differences through my small gestures of
kindness. He will conform others to the likeness of his Son.
It’s pretty
staggering when you realize that everything you’ve gone through isn’t
just for your benefit but for the benefit of others. That he is going to
keep that cycle going and continue to glorify his name in all the
earth. And it’s like man. Despite how many times I showed up in the
story, it’s nothing but a footnote in a serial. This wasn’t about me at
all. I am Jerry Cruncher robbing graves.
